On the way home from Florida we got the news that James' dad was being taken to the ER. He was dehydrated and had super high BP. Over the next 24 hours his health diminished greatly. The cancer had spread from his throat to now one of his lungs. Since there was nothing else they could do for him, they made the decision to move him to a Hospice facility. We flew to Phoenix, AZ Sunday afternoon {as soon as we could} to see him. He then passed away late Monday night.
Tom was a godly man, loving husband, father and grandfather. His ministry was his children. He poured into their lives and instilled in them godly principles so they could impact the world around them for Christ. He had a huge heart and capacity to love. He took everyone in as if they were his family. He raised an amazing son whom I am proud to have as a husband and father to my children. Tom left a legacy in the way of his kids and grandkids. He will be greatly missed.
Please pray for our entire family. James was extremely close to his father. It is hard to think that he is gone. It is hard to know that Brynlee will not remember him. I also just get so sad in knowing that in four years James has lost both of his parents to cancer.
I do have to say that the best gift you can give your family is to believe in God and Jesus and to live your life for him. Knowing beyond a shadow of a doubt that both Tom and Vicki are in Heaven really is the best comfort in this time.
You are right, Lyd. Both Tom and Vicki poured their lives into their families which enabled them to serve even more through their individual ministries. What amazing legacies!! Love and praying for you guys always.
ReplyDeletePraying for your family! Sounds like he was an amazing guy, and it's such a comfort to know he's with Jesus right now!
ReplyDeleteHi I just found your blog from Kelly's link up. Oh I am so sorry for your loss. My husband lost his father last year to cancer. It was difficult. Grief in the ministry can be very trying...I just gave birth to a stillborn son 1-24-12. It is so hard to have to keep serving and loving when you just want to crawl into a pit. I am saying a prayer right now for your sweet family.
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